1.   Discretion---This is a MUST at ALL times.  Never discuss other member’s personal lives, jobs or other activities with anyone for ANY reason.  This includes mentioning to anyone that someone is a member of a lifestyles group.  Privacy is very important to most of our members and violating this rule is a serious offense.  This includes discussing specific event or private meeting details with anyone whether a member of this club or not. (This excludes event times and dates requested by those needing information to attend a party.)

2.   NO means NO---No explanation is ever needed.  No is simply no thank you, I am not interested at this time and that is the end of it.  If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, even woman too!) Do not take it personally, please do not make a scene. It is almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected.

3.   DO NOT Touch Anyone Without Permission---This is self explanatory.  Also be sure to pay attention to the person’s body language. 

4.   Condom Sense---This group strongly encourages the use of condoms and suggests that everyone whether at an after hours party, other party or private meetings use condoms.  Keep in mind those who refuse to use condoms may be limited as to which activities others may invite you to attend. Most group members practice safe sex and will not be involved in activities that include members who do not use the same practice.  Have respect for yourself and others and the group and please use a condom.

5.   Problems with Others---If you have a problem with someone in the club not following these rules please talk to a security member so the issue/s can be addressed and resolved.  All of us work together to make this a great group that is a comfortable and safe place for everyone.

6.   Controlled Substances/Illegal Drugs---Controlled substances/illegal drugs will not be tolerated at any club function. If you are caught or seen by the BSC owners or members who are in charge using any kind of illegal drugs, you will be asked to leave immediately and asked not to return.

7.   Vulgar talk, Fighting, Obnoxious, Unruly, Argumentative and Drunken Behavior--This will not be tolerated. You will be asked to leave! If you and your spouse/mate/etc or someone else at the event are having an issue, do take it to where you can be private and discuss the issue. If you can not remedy the situation at the club then please leave early; you do not want to make a scene, and work things out before you return to the club. Any couple or persons who fight, throw things, etc at people will be asked to leave to immediately and asked not to return to the BSC.  If you have any disagreements, you should leave for everyone's sake.

8.   Restrictions on Pictures or Videos---Pictures and videos are not allowed to be taken at group sponsored events. If you are caught taking pictures or videoing whatever you are using camera, cell phone etc will be confiscated. This is a no tolerance rule and it is taken very seriously.

9.   Copyright Information---ALL information contained on the clubs website or distributed by the club is copyrighted.  Copying any information is covered under all federal and state laws that apply.  Persons violating this rule are subject to legal action as well as group sanctions.


10.   Room Damages---If damages occur to a rented room at the party venue you will be suspended from the club for a minimum of 2 months (amount of time to be determined depending on extent of damage.)


All of these rules are equally important and will be enforced for the safety and security of the group and its members. As with everything in life rules are always necessary. If you have any questions on the rules just ask a regular group member or myself and we will be happy to help you.